It has been a tough week…. And yes Im feeling drained and maybe you feel the same way too…
Give yourself some grace.
Someone reminded me of this recently.
Often, when we don’t achieve the goals we set, we tend to beat ourselves up and tell ourselves we’re not good enough.
I’ve been pushing myself every day in many ways and I’m guilty of often feeling “not good enough” instead of celebrating what I am capable of doing.
Why do we do this to ourselves?
I’m sure it’s not just me; many of you probably feel the same way.
Looking back 9 months ago after my accident, I struggled to stay awake, needed help getting out of bed, and dealt with severe headaches, Dizziness, nausea and vomiting. I couldn’t move my neck properly and had constant neck and back pain.
A few months ago, I struggled with driving again, but now I am doing much better, at 90% recovery.
Yet, I still beat myself up for not being at 100%.
The past two weeks were challenging then someone told me to give myself some grace.
It hit me that I had been so focused on what my limitations and that I was not recognizing what I have achieved.
So, what lessons can we take from this?
I have to constantly remind my to stop beating myself up and maybe you should too.
Sharing this to you Beutiful thoughts – Like Autumn
Celebrate Small Wins
Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. Each step forward is progress.
Set Realistic Goals
While it’s great to aim high, make sure your goals are attainable and give yourself enough time to achieve them.
Practice Self-Compassion
Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend. It’s okay to stumble and take breaks.
Reflect on Progress
Regularly take a moment to look back and see how far you’ve come.
This helps us in appreciating our journey rather than just focusing on the destination.
We tend to forget what we already have as we strive for more.
Let’s remind ourselves to appreciate our efforts, recognize our achievements, and give ourselves some grace along the way.
I just want to thank all the supportive human beings around me.
Autumn in New Zealand is a mesmerizing season, where the landscapes transform into a rich tapestry of warm hues and the air becomes crisp and invigorating. Whether you’re a nature lover, a photographer, or someone seeking tranquility, autumn in NZ has something special to offer. Here are my favorite spots to soak in the autumnal beauty of this stunning country.
1. Arrowtown
Nestled near Queenstown, Arrowtown is a historic gold rush village that becomes a golden wonderland in autumn. The streets are lined with deciduous trees that blaze with fiery colors, creating a picturesque setting that’s perfect for a leisurely stroll. Don’t miss the Arrow River, where the reflections of autumn colors in the water add to the charm. Time your visit for the Arrowtown Autumn Festival in late April to enjoy local festivities and community spirit.
2. Wanaka
Wanaka is a year-round beauty, but it truly shines in autumn. The shores of Lake Wanaka are adorned with vibrant foliage, making it a fantastic spot for photography and relaxation. Take a walk along the lakefront, visit the iconic Wanaka Tree, and soak in the breathtaking views of the Southern Alps dressed in autumn colors. The cool, clear days are perfect for hiking, biking, or simply enjoying a lakeside picnic.
3. Lake Tekapo
Famous for its striking turquoise waters and the quaint Church of the Good Shepherd, Lake Tekapo is a must-visit in autumn. The surrounding poplars and willows turn golden, creating a stunning contrast with the blue lake and the snow-dusted peaks of the Southern Alps. It’s an ideal spot for photographers, star gazers, and anyone looking to experience a serene, otherworldly landscape.
4. Hawke’s Bay
On the North Island, Hawke’s Bay is a fantastic autumn destination, especially for food and wine lovers. The region’s vineyards are awash with rich autumn colors, and many wineries offer tours and tastings that allow you to savor the local produce. The orchards and farmers’ markets are brimming with fresh fruits and vegetables, making it a delightful spot to indulge in seasonal flavors.
5. Taranaki
With its dramatic landscape dominated by Mt. Taranaki, Taranaki offers a unique autumn experience. The forests in Egmont National Park turn into a blend of oranges, yellows, and reds, providing a vivid backdrop for hiking and exploring. The coastal areas also offer stunning views, with the added beauty of autumn colors making the scenery even more breathtaking.
New Zealand’s autumn is a season of beauty and tranquility, with each region offering its own unique charm. Whether you’re wandering through golden forests, relaxing by tranquil lakes, or indulging in local wines, the colors and atmosphere of autumn in NZ are sure to enchant you. Pack your bags, grab your camera, and set out to explore these amazing destinations this autumn.
Have you experienced autumn in New Zealand? Share your favorite spots and memories in the comments below!
