When we decided to buy our first home in 2014, we had to cut back on expensive dates and dining out to save money. But rather than give up on date nights altogether, I started looking for creative ways to keep the romance alive without breaking the bank. That’s how I discovered the magic of Cheap Dates and Fine Dining at Home—something we still cherish and enjoy to this day.
I remember those early days when we’d go to a café and share a large latte for just $6 instead of ordering two separate coffees. The joy and connection were the same; the price was just lower. As a nurse, I’m used to never finishing a cup of coffee properly—making one at the start of my shift and drinking it cold by the end. So, savoring a warm cup together, even on a budget, felt like a luxury.
We made it a habit to go out for simple yet meaningful dates, spending under $20 so we could do it more often. And when we do go for fine dining, we make it count—like indulging in a 10-course degustation meal for our anniversary, making those special occasions even more memorable.

At home, I bring the fine-dining experience to us. I take the time to plate our meals beautifully, light candles, and play soft music, transforming our dining space into a romantic restaurant setting. Living in New Zealand has taught me to appreciate these little things, and I encourage my fellow Filipinos to embrace this mindset too.
Now that we own a bach with stunning water and mountain views, we enjoy these at-home dates even more. When the weather is perfect, I elevate the experience by adding a tablecloth, fresh flowers, and elegantly plated meals. Thanks to HelloFresh, creating restaurant-quality dishes at home has never been easier—it’s healthy, simple, and budget-friendly. And because I love sharing this joy, I’m giving away some FREE HelloFresh boxes for those who want to experience fine dining at home!
3 Simple Tips for More Dates Without Overspending
- Create Special Moments at Home – Set the table nicely, use candles, play music, and make your everyday meals feel like a date night. It’s the effort that makes it meaningful.
- Plan Affordable Outdoor Dates – Pack a picnic and head to a local park or beach. Enjoying nature together costs nothing but creates beautiful memories.
- Take Advantage of Deals and DIY Meals – Look out for café specials, happy hour deals, or use meal kits like HelloFresh to cook gourmet meals at home without the restaurant price tag.
Valentine’s Day is just one day, but keeping the romance alive all year round is what truly matters. We’re so blessed to be living in New Zealand, and I hope this inspires you to create your own home sweet home date nights!
That’s why in Pinoys in NZ, our goal this year is to help more kababayans buy their first home so you have a place you call your own and you can do more if you own it compared to renting. Please join our upcoming events about buying your first home—
Check the link below